Thursday, August 13, 2009

People always lie

It has come to my attention that people always lie. I really do want to believe in the best in everybody, but my 24 years on this earth has shown me otherwise. I really do wish that this wasn't the case but no matter which way you step or where you try to go you are always going to encounter people that are willing to lie to your face.

The funny thing about this whole thing is that everyday we probably encounter more than a dozen people that lie right to our face and we could really care less about it. But the thing that really stick are those people that we are closest to that are willing to risk it all by lying to us. Because weather they know it or not, they are. They are risking everything that has been built to that very point that they tell you that lie.

Of course I'm not talking about those little white lies we always tell each other I'm talking about the big ones. Those I love you lies. Those cheating lies. Those lies about how close we are and how you are willing to do anything for them.

I often times think that people don't realize the effect these lies are going to have on the people they say they care about. I've been lied to recently. And maybe besides that person lying to me I have also bee lying to myself. Thinking that this person really does care when I know that deep down they only care about themselves.

But that's the thing right, we want to believe that these people care about us even after they've lied right to our faces. Even after they have made up feel as though we aren't worthy. Even after they've told you they love you and completely proved otherwise. We still want to carrie these people in our hearts even though we are not really in there's. Of course we believe we are, but really we aren't.

So I employ all of you to really look at a person. Because sometimes you really can't take what they say into consideration, because really what people say and what they feel only matters to them, it's what they do that really counts. So for those of you out there that didn't get this let me repeat the following, PEOPLE ALWAYS LIE.

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